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  • Oct. 30th, 2008 at 1:47 PM

If you are one of the poor souls who lives in a "battleground state" I can't imagine how sick you must be of the campaigning by now. Even a political news junkie like me is anxious for it to be over and I haven't been subjected to nearly as many commercials or phone calls as people in the purple or yellow or whatever other color state you are in have endured. It is a good thing to be living in a solid blue Illinois this year for that reason. If anyone reads this blog, I'm planning a smallish celebration Nov. 5 after work. I'll be celebrating by going to Lord Stanley's and ordering up some fried pickles if you would like to join me. I hope I will be at least sort of happy while I'm munching away on a dill pickle and not crying into my beer. So if you are there ca. 4:00 or so that's when they start making the pickles.

Campaign signs I've seen and like

  • Oct. 13th, 2008 at 11:38 AM

"Hey Sarah i can see the end of your political career from my house."
"Polar bears for Obama." and "Wolves for Obama"
"McFailin"
"You can't win an occupation."
"Hockey dads against incompetence"
"Rednecks for Obama."

But please don't make me look at these two for the next four years.


Please.

Oh dear

  • Aug. 12th, 2008 at 1:45 PM

Every now and then I get a bad case of the blues... not that uncommon I know, but it's hard to give someone who hasn't experienced true depression a good idea of what it is like. Sometimes you just have to wait for it to go away unless it's bad enough to immobilize you and you need medication to give you a lift up. Sometimes I think that it would just be solved if i had a significant other to share life with, but there are entire other issues there. I have lived alone long enough now, that I wonder if I could successfully live with another person. Maybe there is a website that introduces older people to each other, single people ready to start retirement with someone. The idea of people forming communities to live together has a certain attraction for me right now.

I just stole this from [info]daiserswho stole it from someone else.
"What we have here is the top 106 books most often marked as "unread" by LibraryThing’s users. As in, they sit on the shelf to make you look smart or well-rounded. Bold the ones you've read, underline the ones you read for school, italicize the ones you started but didn't finish. Here's the twist: add (*) beside the ones you liked and would (or did) read again or recommend. Even if you read 'em for school in the first place."
Personally I can't remember if I read some of these so I just left them alone.  There are hardly any books I would read again simply because there are too many books too little time, but maybe just maybe I would read some of the ones I haven't read for a long time like the Grapes of Wrath or Catcher in the Rye.  There are many books I would recommend before the ones on this list though.  I have tried to start listing my favorites on my google library.
The Aeneid
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay
American Gods
Anansi Boys
Angela’s Ashes : a memoir
Angels & Demons
Anna Karenina
Atlas Shrugged
Beloved
The Blind Assassin
Brave New World
The Brothers Karamazov
The Canterbury Tales
The Catcher in the Rye
Catch-22
A Clockwork Orange
Cloud Atlas 
Collapse : how societies choose to fail or succeed
A Confederacy of Dunces
The Confusion
The Corrections
The Count of Monte Cristo
Crime and Punishment
Cryptonomicon
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time
David Copperfield
Don Quixote
Dracula
Dubliners
Dune
Eats, Shoots & Leaves
Emma
Foucault’s Pendulum
The Fountainhead
Frankenstein
Freakonomics : a rogue economist explores the hidden side of everything
The God of Small Things
The Grapes of Wrath
Gravity’s Rainbow
Great Expectations
Gulliver’s Travels
Guns, Germs, and Steel: the fates of human societies
A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius
The Historian : a novel
The Hobbit
The Hunchback of Notre Dame
The Iliad
In Cold Blood : a true account of a multiple murder and its consequences
The Inferno
Jane Eyre
Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell
The Kite Runner
Les Misérables
Life of Pi : a novel
Lolita
Love in the Time of Cholera
Madame Bovary
Mansfield Park
Memoirs of a Geisha
Middlemarch
Middlesex

Mrs. Dalloway
The Mists of Avalon
Moby Dick
Neverwhere
1984
Northanger Abbey
The Odyssey
Oliver Twist
The Once and Future King
One Hundred Years of Solitude
On the Road
One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest
Oryx and Crake : a novel
A People’s History of the United States : 1492-present
Persuasion
The Picture of Dorian Gray
The Poisonwood Bible : a novel
A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man
Pride and Prejudice
The Prince
Quicksilver
Reading Lolita in Tehran : a memoir in books
The Satanic Verses
The Scarlet Letter
Sense and Sensibility
A Short History of Nearly Everything
The Silmarillion
Slaughterhouse-five
The Sound and the Fury
A Tale of Two Cities

Tess of the D’Urbervilles
The Time Traveler’s Wife
To the Lighthouse
Treasure Island
The Three Musketeers
The Unbearable Lightness of Being
Vanity Fair
War and Peace
Watership Down
White Teeth
Wicked : the life and times of the wicked witch of the West
Wuthering Heights
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance : an inquiry into values

A common scold

  • Jul. 22nd, 2008 at 8:38 AM

Until 1967 the common law of England (until 1829 in Philadelphia) used this legal term for a boisterous, disorderly and quarrelsome woman accused of being a public nuisance to her neighbours. It was only applied to women and I don't know how boisterious and disorderly you had to be to have that term applied to you. I assume loudness and anger would play a big part. Other terms used included brawling and breaking the peace. I would like to have a description of this behavior from an actual trial of a "common scold" The punishment for this offense was to be dunked into the water in a "ducking stool." They were the early feminists, I guess. I should find it hard not to be accused of being a "common scold" in the days that this law was on the books.
Last night I watched QVC[!]and I bought something from the Jay McCarroll clothing line. Last year I promised myself that I would get something of his, I didn't care what it was. This will be a treasured piece of clothing. I wish I still had that Mary Quant dress I bought from Sears back in my heighday. This is 100% silk and it is kind of crazy looking fabric, but I like it.

ghosts

  • Jul. 7th, 2008 at 10:08 AM

If you live in one place long enough, you know that that place soon becomes filled with ghosts. They may not be the ectoplasmic kind, the ones that say boo and swirl around the sky artistically, but they are the ghosts that linger in the neighborhood of your memory. When I go for a walk in the several blocks surrounding my house, there are first the ghosts of the old husband and wife who lived one door down from me. The old guy built dollhouses as a hobby and was always pottering around his yard keeping it as neat as a golf course. He once helped me get in my house when I locked myself out by removing the storm window. He was a reliable presence every election day at our polling place until he was unable to do it any longer. He drove out of his driveway and down our street to parts unknown, til his head was barely visible above the steering wheel. His wife came over to see what I was planting in my garden and had compliments for my dianthus. She died several years before he did. They are long gone, the tidy brick house now inhabited by a family with young children. Up the street just a tiny bit farther, the crossing guard for my daughter's (now 32 yrs. old!) elementary school. A jovial person who wore a sort of John Lennon cap and began to walk around more when his doctor discovered heart problems. His wife dressed up as a clown for childrens' parties. She got dressed up and drove around in full makeup for each occasion. Both of these people have been gone for some time. I think of the dogs of years past, remembering them walking by, barking greetings, their owners, some of them gone also. My own dog Bear, greeting each of my neighbors who exclaimed over how pretty she was. My father who lived just about six blocks from me with his gardens full of fruit trees, vegetables, raspberries and flowers is gone and I can barely walk in the area near his house for the sorrow that he won't be at the end of my walk. My sister-in-law's father, who became ill with Parkinson's disease, the same illness that took my father away, also walked the streets near my father's house for several years before he was gone. I still see them when I walk the same streets. I see the children my daughter used to play with before they became grown up. When I visit my Mom, I see the ghosts of other people, friends of my childhood from the age of about 8 when we moved to a small subdivision next to a big farm, now turned into more houses. Sometimes I feel the reason I'd like to move away, is to finally say goodbye to the ghosts here. I think it is just a few years away.

Wedding stories

  • Jun. 19th, 2008 at 12:13 PM


Over the last week of May, first week of June my daughter and I were running around Wilmington, NC doing nutty errands, spending lots of money and getting ready for the wedding or else I was making stuff for the wedding. For three days afterwards I tried to lead a group of disparate people for some sight seeing around Wilmington (unusually thankless job sometimes!) Kind of hard to find things everyone will enjoy or restaurants for everyone, but I think I did rather well. I got to see a lot of new things in the area and we had a beach day, a downtown day and an historically themed day. There are pictures loaded to my flickr site. They are not in very good order yet, and there are more to be added, but you can cycle through the first few pages of thumbnails and get the gist of things. The wedding ceremony was lovely, somewhat more of a religious ceremony than I expected. The minister is the pastor of the church my son-in-law's grandmother has been a member of for years and years. It was a bonus that she happens to be a woman. The two kids each cried at some point and so did I of course. The outdoor setting was beautiful. We decorated with the banners or outdoor bunting that have been coming together since January. My brother and his family, mom, my sister and various friends helped get things together at the last minute. My friend and my daughter's friend pitched in to help me with the flowers and bride's bouquet, a last minute chore and they looked great. The groom's mom and dad hosted the party and provided traditional N. Carolina style food including pulled pork cooked in a smoker, etc. I have to give a big thanks to them all. I'm busy trying to make a few things to send them. So North and South got together after all. There was a slight disagreement and early misunderstanding about the size of the group that had been invited and the difference between informal receptions and unplanned ones, but it all worked out fine in the end. The weather was so hot I believe some people didn't want to be outside for a barbecue reception that afternoon and so didn't show up. My daughter looked very beautiful. Her dad was there and it wasn't as scary a meeting as I had anticipated for so many days. I managed to remain calm and collected for the most part. Weddings are good excuses for families to get together but for many of the participants they aren't exactly good places to relax and get caught up with people you haven't seen for a long time or to meet and have nice long conversations with any of the people you don't know well. Maybe we should all have a nice relaxed get together sometime further down the road. What do you think?

Two awful events marked the beginning and end of this winter. One affected me mostly, the other affected hundreds, probably thousands of people. In Oct. my dog Bear died. She was with me for almost 13 and a half years. I loved this dog more than I could even begin to say. She was the most funny, joyful, loving creature I've ever had in my life. It was so sad to see her grow old at the end. She lost the ability to have fun and even to walk so that it would not have been kind to try to keep her alive any longer. She even began to have trouble eating which was unusual for a dog who made it her life's work to find everything edible within her reach. Four months later I still get tearful thinking about her. I have her ashes and am waiting for the right time to scatter them in the park where she loved to go running and swimming. Last month most of the world heard about the shooter who came onto the campus where I work and killed five people in an auditorium before killing himself. The people here are still in mourning over the senseless event. Spring represents a new beginning and rebirth to many of us. I struggle through the winter months most years, but this was an especially difficult one for many people. I hope that we are able to heal and that things will seem hopeful again. I look outside today and see a promising blue sky and sunlight and lately I'm feeling the sort of breezes that signal a change in the seasons. My daughter's wedding is in three months exactly. I'm looking forward to that again. So joy returns.
In news you could use, when I recommend a video or something, you can trust me. Rent "My kid could paint that." It's really good.

The Thawing out of things in general

  • Feb. 29th, 2008 at 10:21 AM

Things have become a bit more normal in the past couple of days. The campus and the community are still mourning, but students are back and we've been able to talk about the terrible thing that happened here with each other. There are counselors all over campus and a much bigger police presence. They've hired security from other places to walk around the campus and buildings, I suppose to help people feel safe again. I was scared almost out of my skin yesterday, when a giant mountain of a man, about the size of William "The Refrigerator" Perry, walked by my office, looked in and smiled at me. GAAAA! Several news vans appeared on campus as I was heading to the credit union and I later found out the governor was here to do a news conference. So his security detail was also all over the place. The sun made an appearance yesterday and today. The first day the students returned, campus was very gray and drizzly. The little memorials scattered here and there are getting tattered looking, and frozen flowers have been sent flying over campus by the wind. People I was on the bus with a couple of days ago stared blankly out at a channel 7 news team setting up for some interviews. It would have been an interesting sight drawing some attention just a few weeks ago. I recently noticed strangers acting much more friendly and sort of more attentive and gentle with each other, holding doors open, saying pardon, and excuse me and that's perfectly okay and smiling at each other.

Just a few days ago I was so angry that I was ready to knock someone down and beat on them. I saw a woman wearing a special t-shirt that was designed after the shooting. It was red and black and had "huskie" paw prints in the shape of a heart and other NIU insignia on it. (The t-shirts were discontinued after some of the victim's families objected, although profits were going to be put toward a charity for the victims.) The woman was also dressed entirely in red, white and black, with a red hair bow. I thought the outfit trivialized the trauma and grief of this event so much that I could not respond to it rationally. It made me nuts. Then my mom talked me down. She said that it was just a person responding in a way that they thought was appropriate and made them feel better. Each person is different, something I should understand better than anyone. So my rage is almost over. I've finished crying I think. The sick feeling that someone has defiled my community and neighborhood has not quite subsided, but I suppose it will over time.

I believe that sunshine and warm weather will arrive eventually. I hope a memorial garden will be put in the site if they tear down Cole Hall. The NIU president actually mentioned this idea as a possibility, so it may happen.

As I finish writing this, a policeman just walked past my office. Thanks, mister policeman.


I've just realised that i can probably order MST3K dvds from Netflix-- and I'm off/
Every year I get spring fever usually around the end of February. The weather here is not conducive to the spring fever At All. We're still surrounded by thousands of pounds of snow. Not even close to melting and it's staying cold for the next several days, so I feel thwarted.

Oh it's farkin cold here...

  • Feb. 11th, 2008 at 12:06 PM

MInus 23 if you factor wind chill and you should on the prairie.  It's coming up to that time of year when I don't feel like I'll ever get warm again.  My office is cold, my house is cold, the OUTDOORS is VERY COLD.

In happy news, my hot cocoa swap package came exactly on my birthday and it is magnificent!   I tried not to eat and drink everything in the package because I wanted to take a nice photo today.  I have posted it on flickr with lots of notes.  So thank you thank you thank you hot cocoa swap buddy because you did an awesome job putting the package together.  I especially appreciate that you made me some banners for this wedding bunting I'm working on and included yarn that I could use to make more.  That was very thoughtful.  I haven't had time to try everything yet, but I can't wait.  SO I'm digging in.
 
Homemade Ginger Ale
From Health



1 cup sugar
1 cup peeled, sliced fresh ginger
1 cup water
12 cups club soda, chilled
12 lemon slices or candied ginger pieces
 

1 of 2


Combine the sugar, ginger, and water in a small saucepan over medium-high heat, and bring to a boil, stirring to dissolve sugar. Reduce heat, and simmer 10 minutes; strain through a fine sieve into a pitcher, and cool. Add the club soda; garnish with lemon or candied ginger.

Note: Syrup can be made and refrigerated, then combined with soda 1 serving at a time, using 2 tablespoons syrup per 1 cup soda.

 



Yield:  serves 12

CALORIES 72 ; FAT 0.0g (sat 0.0g,mono 0.0g,poly 0.0g); PROTEIN 0.0g; CHOLESTEROL 0.0mg; CALCIUM 16mg; SODIUM 52mg; FIBER 0.0g; IRON 0.0mg; CARBOHYDRATE 19g



Food and other things worth mentioning

  • Feb. 5th, 2008 at 11:52 AM

Don't read this yet. There's a surprise in it. 

I voted today at 6:35 a.m..  There was a guy in line at the polling place sighing loudly and making angry impatient noises directed toward the elderly ladies acting as election judges and at those in line for taking too long.  Guess which ballot he wanted? 

My favorite food blog is here. Tigers and strawberries has some amazing  and diverse recipes as well as links to other foodie blogs.  I made Barbara's Moroccan Chicken with oranges, fennel and kalamata olives.  It was to die for. 

My birthday is this Saturday, so I'm taking Friday off to make some  Pear and Ginger muffins, a Mollie Katzen recipe, to take to our knitting group in the morning and I'll be working on my birthday crown, using the book Crowns & Tiaras for inspiration.  I collected a bunch of sparkly rhinestone jewelry and glittery stuff to make it and I guess if anyone wants to help me celebrate, I will wear it so that they can laugh at me!  Won't that be fun!

The Yarn Exchange held its annual "Super Bowl" 20% off sale and I made off with  7 skeins of Malabrigo worsted weight yarn in a beautiful shade of bottle green.  

That's all folks.

 

Sorry

  • Jan. 23rd, 2008 at 12:30 PM

Sorry.  I've had a rough time getting through the past couple of weeks.  This is my least favorite time of year.  It's deadly cold here and I've been stuck indoors too many times.  I would like to have exciting things to tell you all, but the only things I've done outside of going to work, are watch movies, read, or knit.  That said, I can recommend a fantastic movie called Sweet land.  It's in the category of independent films and was released last year I think.  It's about Norwegian immigrant farmers and after you watch it you will never look at an old photo the same way again.  It is so poignant and well, sweet.  So watch it.  Also saw Kandahar and liked that as well.  It was sort of based on a true story.

I'm terribly sad after hearing about Heath Ledger.  When he first appeared as an actor, I thought he was breathtakingly handsome.  He became a pin-up guy for me for a while.  Then I appreciated his acting.  He was in a few quite good roles and some forgettable ones, but always performed well.  I've added a couple of movies to my Netflix list for movies of his I have not yet seen.  I'm feeling so sad for his ex-fiance and child too.  Just because you are famous and have plenty of money doesn't guarantee happiness as we've all heard before.

For my hot cocoa swap partner, let me know if you are out there... I hope you are well.

I have too many ideas to pursue right now and too little time to pursue them.  So what's new? This pesky old job...

Here is an entry I discovered while researching something about an ethnic group for a work I was cataloging:

Bulukumba Regency
The kajang tribes under the leadership of ammatoa are one of the existing tourist objects in South Sulawesi. It locates 41 km from Makassar city and just about two hours away from Bira Beach. The people of Kajang are keeping of their traditional life that wears black color everyday. Usually they reject any kind of gift except a black cloth.

That would make gift giving so much simpler wouldn't it?

Is anyone out there? 

Time to get organized! LISTS

  • Jan. 10th, 2008 at 9:37 AM

I'm planning a bunch of projects for the daughter's upcoming wedding, I have tons of other projects mouldering away in my home, plus things that need upkeep, books that need to be read, all of this in addition to my actual paid work.  So I have started here at least in my internet files to try to corral some of this stuff.  I love to make lists just so I can have stuff to cross off of them.  This here is my list post.  Starting with:
tada-- wedding:
1. Get Print Gocco and make wedding invitations ready to mail by March.
2. Collect vintage tablecloths, fabric
3. Make table runners of grass green allhemp (pattern in Yarnplay at Home)
4. Get divided dishes of melamine from Ebay or some of these new ones. 
5. Continue knitting banners for outdoor bunting decoration.
6. Make wedding cake topper ala Flickr picture here.
7. Make table decoration ala Flickr picture here.
8. Make wedding favors (little houses decorated with papers, ephemera, etc., will show sample when completed)
9. Find big paper flowers for decorating tent frame
10. Get vases for flowers.
11. Mexican papel picado banners.
12. ... (I'm sure there will be more)
Then, I'm going to head on over to Ravelry.  This is a knitting and crochet community I just joined.  It is great spot to keep track of all your knitting projects and yarn stash.  It's a beta site, so you'll be testing it out when  you join.  So far I love it.  You can check out who else is making that cardigan you want to make, look at projects by popularity, search for designers, yarn, and patterns. The best part is, it's heavy on the pictures.  People add pictures of their projects and stash, offer some of their yarn for sale or trade and give yarn ratings.
I'm going to try to pare down my internet presence a bit.  I don't want to be a member on too many things.  So I think I will try to stick with this blog, my flickr site, the wedding planning blog my daughter and I share  and now, Ravelry.  So Ravelry list:
1. Take pictures of yarn stash and organize yarn
2. Collect pictures of future projects
3. Add pictures of completed projects

 Next list, things I need to start saving for in the near future:
1. new electronic camera (Canon Digital Rebel XTi Digital SLR camera with 18-55 mm lens)
2. new roof!
3. new couch and comfy chair
4. laptop
5. a good adjustable floor lamp
and later on:
1. new flooring bedrooms, living room
2. new drywall ditto

Bunting progress

  • Jan. 8th, 2008 at 9:27 AM

 

Here's a graph to show how far I've progressed on the outdoor bunting/pennants/flags project.  Every 10 flags equals about 2.5 yards of bunting so I'm trying to make as many as possible by the day (June 7, 2008)

Labor of love -- collaborative yarn banner

  • Jan. 3rd, 2008 at 9:43 AM

 Maybe I'm really nutty, but I saw some knit pennants called "Summer Bunting" (picture below) at a British yarn shop and thought they would be very cool for an outdoor wedding decoration.  I found a pattern for pennants at Green Mountain Mama's blog which I've changed just slightly by casting on 35 stitches at the beginning instead of 25.  I also made a  garter stitch version and have both posted instructions for both versions below.  The idea is that any family or friends that would like to contribute to this project can knit as many pennants as they would like and at the end I will stitch them all together, probably by crocheting them onto a chain.  I've used cotton and cotton blend worsted wt. yarns in shades of green (the wedding color), or neutral colors, but the occasional blue color is okay also. It doesn't matter whether they are all identical in size though, so other size yarn is okay, I'll just mix them all together.  So what do you think of this idea?  It will look pretty nice, I think.  
Stockinette stitch pennant pattern with garter stitch borders (adapted from Green Mountain Mama pattern)
Worsted wt. yarn and size 8 needles
Cast on 35 stitches 
knit two rows plain
Begin Stockingette stitch pattern:
Knit 2 stitches, purl 31 stitches, knit final two stitches. This row and every other row (the purl rows) - Knit the first and last two stitches so the edge is in garter stitch.
Next row: knit all stitches
Next row: K2,P31, K2
Begin decreasing:
Row 1: K2, SSK, K until last four stitches, K2Tog, K2
Row 2: K2, purl to last two stitches, K2
Row 3: K all stitches
Row 4: K2, purl to last two stitches, K2

repeat rows 1-4 until there are three stitches between garter stitch sections. end with Row 4.
next rows:
K2, Slip 1 knitwise, K2tog, PSSO, K2
K2, purl 1, K2
K all
K2, purl 1, K2

K1, Slip 1 knitwise, K2tog, PSSO, K1
next three rows, K all stitches

Slip 1 knitwise, K2tog, PSSO
K1
end.

Garter stitch pennant pattern 
worsted wt. yarn on size 8 needles
cast on 2 st
k for 3 rows
k1, increase 1 st by k into front of st leaving st on needle then k into back of st (3 st)
k for 3 rows
k1, increase 1 by k into front of st. leaving st on needle, k into back of st,  k1, increase 1 by k into front of st. leaving st on needle, k into back of st (5 st)
k for 3 rows
k1, YO, knit to before last st, YO, k1
k for 4 rows
repeat last 5 rows until there are 35 total stitches on needle
k for 6 more rows
bind off.
Here's a picture of the bunting I saw at Rooster Yarns, available only as a kit though.  

 

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